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The High Cost of Ignoring Financial Advice

March 06, 20255 min read

Mary’s Story: A Costly Financial Mistake

Mary thought she was doing everything right. For over 30 years, she diligently saved $100 per month for retirement through her bank.

When she reached 68 years old, exhausted from working, she asked me:

"Can I retire in two years? I’m already too tired!"

Then, I had to deliver the devastating truth.

Despite decades of saving, her account had only $35,000—barely enough to generate $146 per month in retirement income. It wasn’t even close to enough to retire.

And here’s the heartbreaking part:

👉 If she had invested wisely instead of keeping her savings in the bank, she could have had $228,000—giving her $760 per month instead of $146.

Tears welled up in her eyes. “How did this happen?” she asked.

Mary had followed a bank’s promotion about saving for retirement, assuming it was the best option. But without financial guidance, she didn’t realize she was missing out on significantly better opportunities.

Her story isn’t unique. Every day, families make financial mistakes—ones that take decades to fix or, worse, can’t be fixed at all.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.


Why People Seek Advice—Except for Finances

Think about it:

✔ If you’re sick, you see a doctor.
✔ If you need legal help, you hire a
lawyer.
✔ When tax season arrives, you call an
accountant.
✔ If your marriage is struggling, you might see a
counselor.

But when it comes to money—the very thing that secures your family’s future—many people try to figure it out on their own.

Wealthy families have an entire team of professionals—including financial advisors—because they understand the risk of not using expert advice.

Middle-class families? They rely on trial and error, hoping they will make it.

And unfortunately, financial mistakes are expensive.


Why Do People Avoid Financial Advice?

Here are some common reasons families hesitate to seek guidance—and the truth behind them:

❌ “Financial advisors are only for the rich.”

Reality: Many advisors work with middle-income families and offer affordable, flexible solutions.

❌ “I don’t trust financial advisors.”

Reality: A good advisor isn’t just selling you a product—they help you create a total financial strategy and guide you toward smart decisions.

❌ “I think I know enough.”

Reality: Did school ever teach you how to retire comfortably? Most people never learned about investing, insurance, or tax planning.

❌ “It’s too expensive.”

Reality: The cost of not getting advice—bad investments, high taxes, underfunded retirement—is far greater than the cost of professional guidance.


The Price of Financial Mistakes

Ignoring financial advice can lead to avoidable mistakes—some of which take decades to fix.

🚨 Not Having Any Life Insurance (or Not Enough Coverage)

Many families don’t have life insurance at all—or only have the small policy offered by their job.

➡️ What happens if the unexpected happens tomorrow?

Without proper coverage, your family could struggle to:
✔ Pay the
mortgage or rent
✔ Cover daily expenses
✔ Save for college tuition
✔ Maintain their quality of life

Workplace life insurance is NOT enough. In most cases, it only provides coverage for one year’s worth of expenses—leaving your family financially vulnerable.

🚨 Not Investing Early

Every year you wait means missing out on tens (or even hundreds) of thousands in compound growth—money that could help:
✔ Pay for your
kids’ college
✔ Buy your dream home
✔ Retire early and comfortably

🚨 Buying the Wrong Type of Insurance

Many families overpay for bad policies—draining their budgets without providing real security. The wrong coverage can:
❌ Cost more than it should
❌ Not pay out when your family
needs it most
❌ Leave gaps that put your loved ones at risk

🚨 Failing to Plan for Taxes in Retirement

Some retirement accounts are taxed differently than others. Without a strategy, you could lose a huge chunk of your savings to taxes.

🚨 Relying Only on Social Security

Social Security alone won’t cover most families’ basic expenses. Without additional savings, many people work far longer than they planned or depend on their children for financial help.

Wealthy families avoid these traps because they get professional advice. Middle-income earners? Many realize too late that they should have sought help.


The Ultimate Family Goal: A Secure Retirement

Ask someone, “When would you like to retire?”

Most people say:
➡️
“Tomorrow.”
➡️ “Next week.”
➡️ “As soon as possible.”

But ask them, “What are you doing to prepare for retirement?” and you’ll often hear:
➡️
“Nothing.”
➡️ “I’m saving some money.”
➡️ “I have a 401(k) or IRA.”

The problem? Saving for retirement isn’t the same as having a plan.

If you’re not actively making smart financial choices, how do you expect to retire comfortably?

What It Takes to Retire Comfortably

✔ A clear strategy tailored to your family’s goals
Smart financial decisions early on
Regular reviews to stay on track

People who get financial guidance are far more likely to retire comfortably—and often earlier than those who don’t.

Those who don’t? Many work longer than they want to, experience financial stress, or depend on family for support.


Be Wise—Seek Financial Guidance

If you wouldn’t perform your own surgery or represent yourself in court, why gamble with your family’s financial future?

✔ Get expert advice.
✔ Learn from
others’ mistakes.
✔ Protect your loved ones from
unnecessary financial hardship.

The cost of bad financial decisions is high—but getting advice is free.

🎁 Get My Free Guide: Financial Independence Made Simple
➡️ Download it here

👉 Let’s have a quick, no-pressure conversation about your financial future. One small step today can mean a lifetime of security for your family. Click here to get started.

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Joe Susaña

Joe Susaña is a seasoned financial coach and retired military veteran who brings over two decades of dedication to serving others. Known for his approachable style, Joe has a knack for breaking down complex financial concepts into simple, actionable steps. His blog is a resource for parents and families looking to build a solid financial foundation, offering insights that make personal finance both practical and achievable. Driven by a genuine commitment to helping others succeed, Joe believes that everyone deserves financial peace of mind. When he’s not guiding others toward their financial goals, he loves spending quality time with his family, traveling, and creating memories with his wife, and their three children. Follow Joe on social media for more straightforward tips on budgeting, saving, and planning a brighter future.

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